if you’re asexual, you are not obligated to take part in the ‘ace discourse’
you are not obligated to fight discoursers on the internet. you are not obligated to find dozens of obscure sources to prove them wrong, which they might not even read, or believe. you are not obligated to defend your sexuality from constant invalidation, or other asexuals from bullying
you are not obligated to do anything that might make you uncomfortable, or put you in a bad mental space, or make you feel unsafe or unhappy. put yourself first. bullies on the internet aren’t worth it
This is very important.
Asexuality is an identity, not a political movement. You don’t have to be an activist all the time to be valid.
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